About Hans Comyn

Hans Comyn is a renaissance man . artist . athlete . scholar . seducer . writer . traveler . musician . cyclist . philosopher . public speaker . rebel.

5 Ways to Improve Your Relationship

Recently, I made a facebook post and a YouTube video on why ‘getting into a relationship’ is terrible for your relationships. In a way, to get ‘together’ with someone is often the beginning of the end of a relationship. I received many reactions to the video, and several of you asked me what it means [...]

Seek to be Seduced

Seek to be seduced One should always seek to be seduced. It is the only thing that matters, it is your number one concern. So as not to succumb to the invisible powers of the almighty mundane, which suck you in and drag you down, one must seek to be seduced without respite. But seduced [...]

Why girls don’t reply to you (even if she likes you)

Have you ever had a good encounter with a girl, but afterwards she does not reply to your messages? Or a date that felt good, but afterwards she becomes unresponsive? You can feel she likes you, but she still disappears... How often does it happen that a girl you like, likes you back? It is [...]

When words say too much

An essential trait of any intimate relationship is to be inclusive with your partner. To be inclusive of the other means that you take (part of) the responsibility in making sure the other knows about the things that matter between each other.  You make sure that things are clear. To be inclusive does NOT mean you have [...]

The Secret to Seduction is Timing

Seduction is simple, but it is not easy. Seduction is as simple as getting the timing right. Seduction is as hard as getting the timing right. Like when fishing, you have to wait until the fish swallows the hook. If you reel in too late, the fish will be gone. If you reel in too [...]

Man’s Anger is a Gift

  Zack de la Rocha of Rage Against The Machine performs at the Coachella Valley Music and Arts Festival in Indio, Calif., on Sunday, April 29, 2007. (AP Photo/Branimir Kvartuc)   Man's anger is a gift, even though he's been told a kazillion times the opposite. From working with thousands of men over [...]

Commitment Will Set You Free

  I commit. I thrive on commitments. I believe they are the cornerstone of every relationship. Just not in the way most assume it... When I speak about commitments, I am not talking about the vague, presupposition-ridden and half-assed 'we'll see how it goes' kind of commitment that is rampant in our day and age. [...]

What Women Mean When They Say: “Where have the real men gone?”

      All through my twenties and well into my thirties, I was not particularly popular with women. Every now and then, however, I attracted a beautiful woman, and once these women got to know me better, they rarely wanted to leave. I seemed to speak to their imagination. In hindsight, I realize that [...]

How to Love (a Woman)

  Go out and meet women.  Desire women. Worship them. Get nervous and talk to Her anyway. Absolutely love, love, LOVE women.  Celebrate the whole of womanhood in every woman you meet. Get rejected. Lose gracefully. Talk to more women. Date every woman who wants to date you. Ask her everything you want to know [...]

The Holy Trinity of Experiences

  There are 3 experiences that will teach you everything about life and love you want to know. Words, courses, books, workshops,... may serve as valuable guides in your journey through life, but there is no better teacher than the experience itself. To have those experiences, you have to create those experiences. Once you show [...]